There are a few topics that should be off limits to discuss when you are on a first adult sex date with a lady.
These are a few of the things that you should stay away from discussing when you are first trying to get to know each other.
There are just certain things that you should try to avoid talking about on a first date. These are a few of them in case you do not know what not to bring up. These are topics that should not really even be discussed on a third or fourth date.
Religion
When you bring up religion on your adult date then there are several things that can go wrong. You may find out that you are on completely opposite sides of the religious spectrum and this may cause an argument.
Sometimes religion is a touchy subject between people so it is important to stay away from it in the beginning.
Your Exes
Your new date does not need to know about what went wrong with your old dates. If you bring up or continuously talk about what your past relationship does wrong then that will be a huge turnoff.
Political Conversation
Political conversation kind of falls into the same taboo first date subjects as Religion. It can be a touchy subject for people and you do not want to open up that can of worms on the first date. Staying away from politics for a while is smart.
Do Not Complain
Complaining about your job, your neighbors, your friend’s baby, or anything else is not a good way to engage in conversation with someone. You do not want to come off as a negative person, and that is exactly what is going to happen if you are complaining about everything you can think of. Try to keep the conversation upbeat and positive so that she or he does not think you are a wet blanket.
How Much Money You Make
There are a couple of reasons you should not talk about how much money you make. The obvious reason is that it is rude, and you could make more or less than your date which can be uncomfortable either way.
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