To Masturbate Or Not Masturbate that is the question.
Today we are going to be talking about the masturbation. There is obviously a heated debate out there on the Internet about whether masturbation is a good thing or a bad thing.
Well, let’s talk about the school of thoughts that says it is a bad thing and they say “Do not masturbate”.
It just destroys your sexual energy and women will notice your sexual energy more when you do not masturbate.
On the other hand you have got the people that say masturbation is natural, it is pleasurable, it helps you to regulate your sexual energy and it can help you to avoid climaxing too early when you actually have a sex with a girl on your adult date.
In other words, it helps you to avoid being a one minute man.
Now let’s talk about some common myths about masturbation and bust them straight away because there are some fascinating things out there, I have to say.
Common Myths About Masturbation
- Masturbation does not limit sexual performance or libido later in life.
- Masturbation does not cause a reduction in the quantity of semen.
- Masturbation does not adversely affect the quality of semen.
- Masturbation does not make semen watery.
- Masturbation does not cause mental illness.
- Masturbation does not cause blindness. I mean that should be an obvious one, otherwise most men would be blind.
- Masturbation does not cause growth of hair on palms which is my favorite one. I have to say I did not know about this I looked online and I was like wow.
- Masturbation does not cause impotence either.
So you are off on all of those counts.
Are We Designed To Masturbate?
Instead in this may actually surprise you there is a reason in nature why we humans apparently like to masturbates so much.
That is due to a study by Scientific American and they are reporting bascially that in men, the younger and more fresh the sperm sample is, the more likely it is to be accepted by the female reproductive tract and result in a fertilized embryos.
That means the fitter younger sperm, kind of gets there more quickly and makes more babies.
Now based on this finding they label male masturbation as a natural way to shed old sperm and make room for new fitter sperm.
Even for women orgasms which are often obtained through masturbation (if you are not doing your job), are also attributed to the higher sperm retention. It is also to believe that orgasms give women an incentive to have more sex.
I would believe that definitely. I can tell from my own personal experience and so increase their chances of procreating.
So What Do I Think?
Here are my conclusions from all of this and which totally bears out in my life.
Moderation Is Key
Alright, if you masturbate from time to time, it might well help you to regulate your sexual energy and you are staying in touch with being a little bit sexual atleast.
That is something I found especially useful for people who have been single for a while.
Otherwise you either get really sexually frustrated around women or on the other hand you forget that you have a penis in the first place and pretend that you do not need a sex life.
Both of those extremes do not help you.
Masturbation Can Help Delay Orgasm
Here is a key tip. If you have a tendency to orgasm too quickly for the girl then masturbating regularly and specially before a date is a really good idea.
Practice Lasting Longer!
You can also use masturbation to practice delaying your ejaculation. On the other hand if you have got a problem getting stimulated by women and you constantly watch porn and you masturbate several times a day, you would be smart to slow it down and reduce it to once or twice a week at least for a while to see how it feels different.
Do Not Get Addicted To Porn
Also do not get addicted to porn movies and please I know a lot of the younger guys do this. Do not start thinking that porn has much to do with mutual sex, with a real person.
Listen To Your Body
So listen to your body notice what feels right for you. Use masturbation to regulate your sexual energy and ejaculation.
Please do yourself a favor, do not watch porn that is exploitative or makes you feel dirty in some way.
On that serious note, have you got stories about this, have you opinions about this, this should be a hot topic so let’s have a discussion right below. Share your stories here below.
Masturbation is great, do not get me wrong, but it is not even close to making love to a girl that you really love.
So if you are wondering how to get regular adult dating dates with girls that lead to more then read my other posts as well.
I see you later, take care.