Should you act like a jerk on the first date, be aloof, disinterested, or like a love sick puppy. You may think that you should be a gentleman and just be polite, but women are so complicated it is hard to know what they are looking for. They say they want a nice guy, and then they date jerks? What’s a man to do?
Nice But Not A Door Mat
Girls do want to date a nice guy, but that can only get you so far. Don’t be a push over. You can be a nice guy who is polite without letting her wipe her stilettos off on you. You can be nice just don’t agree with everything she says just to agree. That is something that will put you on the friends list. If you are a push over you will soon be the guy she calls to ask about her new boyfriend’s actions.
If you are just looking for a good time, and wanting to hook up then you can try out the bad boy image. Make sure you can back it up though, if that is not really who you are then you are going to come across as trying too hard. If she smells desperation then you can count on sleeping alone that night.
Turn Your Phone Off
This an important one. Make sure that you turn off your damn phone. Do not even think to pick up the phone in the middle of the first date. I have done that once and my date ran away from me. I talked about ten minutes with my boss. She was so gorgeous, just my perfect match. You should completely focus on your date, you can answer all of your incoming calls later.
Don’t lie about your accomplishments or what you do for a living. You need to be yourself because then you won’t have to worry about constantly keeping up the lie. It can be very stressful to be untruthful so you might as well be honest from the beginning.
As you can see these are three different approaches to how you should behave. Use your judgment and make sure to determine who you are going to be before you go on the date. You can be nice and take a chance, be the bad boy and go for mysterious, or be yourself. Good luck out there guys.