Adult Dating Tips

You need to have a great profile picture in order to set you apart from all the other members on the websites. You should follow some basic guidelines for taking the best picture possible listed below.

The Smile

Don’t go cheesy and cute with the smile then you will come off looking fake. You want a nice genuine smile. Don’t make any stupid faces or strike some strange pose. Just try to have a real but friendly smile. Take a few pictures until you get it right. You will need the best one for your profile. A cute picture is fine if it is a snap shot that someone took of you and it looks really good. It is not okay if it is you making duck lips in the mirror at yourself. Know the difference.

The Clothes

Nice, clean, unwrinkled clothes work wonders for a picture. Make sure they are not dirty and don’t make you look sloppy. Make sure you brush your hair and look well groomed. If your picture doesn’t look like you are trying to impress someone then you shouldn’t be on the site. Pick out something that makes you look nice and that won’t blend into the background you pick, or clash horribly with it.

The Nudity

Do not even think about posing naked in your profile picture. Well, you can post naked pictures in your album but do not this with the profile picture because most of the members could think of you as a stranger because the very first thing they see is your profile picture. There are women and guys are not really interested in looking at your cock. Plus on some sites you must be fully clothed in your own pp so respect that.

The Setting

Don’t be in some weird setting like posing in a pile of teddy bears or lying on a pool float. Just a normal sitting in front of a wall picture will do. You don’t want to look like you are trying too hard. The beach in a bathing suit might be okay if it looks like a natural picture, but don’t look like you are having modeling pictures taken unless of course you are a model.

Should you act like a jerk on the first date, be aloof, disinterested, or like a love sick puppy. You may think that you should be a gentleman and just be polite, but women are so complicated it is hard to know what they are looking for. They say they want a nice guy, and then they date jerks? What’s a man to do?

Nice But Not A Door Mat

Girls do want to date a nice guy, but that can only get you so far. Don’t be a push over. You can be a nice guy who is polite without letting her wipe her stilettos off on you. You can be nice just don’t agree with everything she says just to agree. That is something that will put you on the friends list. If you are a push over you will soon be the guy she calls to ask about her new boyfriend’s actions.

Bad Boy

If you are just looking for a good time, and wanting to hook up then you can try out the bad boy image. Make sure you can back it up though, if that is not really who you are then you are going to come across as trying too hard. If she smells desperation then you can count on sleeping alone that night.

Turn Your Phone Off

This an important one. Make sure that you turn off your damn phone. Do not even think to pick up the phone in the middle of the first date. I have done that once and my date ran away from me. I talked about ten minutes with my boss. She was so gorgeous, just my perfect match. You should completely focus on your date, you can answer all of your incoming calls later.

Be Yourself

Don’t lie about your accomplishments or what you do for a living. You need to be yourself because then you won’t have to worry about constantly keeping up the lie. It can be very stressful to be untruthful so you might as well be honest from the beginning.

As you can see these are three different approaches to how you should behave. Use your judgment and make sure to determine who you are going to be before you go on the date. You can be nice and take a chance, be the bad boy and go for mysterious, or be yourself. Good luck out there guys.