When you want a girl to think it is her idea to go out with you there are ways that you can get her to ask you first. This can build your confidence and make for a better evening when she really, really wants to go out with you.
There are a few things that you can do to get a girl to ask you out. Maybe you want to put the ball in her court, and this is smart if you are someone who doesn’t mind giving up control because she will really want to go out with you.
You should always have plans with friends when she asks you what you are doing. If you travel in the same social circles you should mention dates with other girls so that it gets back to her. The more unavailable you are to her the more appealing you look. If she gets the chance to ask you out and she thinks she can snag you from another fun activity then you are golden.
If she says she doesn’t think she can date someone like you tell her it is probably for the best. Using reverse psychology on a woman works wonders. Once she thinks that she cannot have you, you become a lot more appealing to her. If she says you aren’t her type agree with her, then say something like fun and handsome is not your type I get it, your loss baby. This will at least get her thinking about it.
Do Not Be Too Eager
When she does ask you out, do not jump up and down for joy. You should make her think she is lucky you are even going out with her. If you turn into obsessive man after you have been so stand-offish then it is not going to work. You can tell her you appreciate the date at the end of it, and give her a good night kiss, but the fact that you don’t push for more or act too excited will keep her up all night wondering if she is good enough.