Maybe it happened to you not only once. You find a cute girl on some adult dating site, maybe among your friend’s list and you decide to approach her and try to have sex with. Do not ask your friend who is she, where is she from, find out on your own. You are a man, is your duty to find out more.
To start with, add her on your list. Then browse her photos. Take a good look at the comments, see what is she like, if she has lots of friends or just a few. That is important to know. If you are convinced that she is a decent girl, you can start the attack, metaphorically speaking. Send her a message on the chat. Say something like “Hello, Sam!”. Avoid typing stupid things like “hey, sexy”. No, girls don’t like to be approached like that. So try to abstain yourself from silly texts like that. It is enough to say her name, and she will think that you already know her from somewhere. The ice between you is already broken. Do not forget to use her name again once in a while, she will like it. Every person is delighted to hear her name said out loud, use it as a trick.
Take care to have some good pictures with you on your profile page. Photos with you drunk are not the best option. Think a little. You can not use gestures on the dating website, you can not impress her with your charm. So your photos is all that you got. And if they are lame, she will not think about going out with you. So beside your attitude on the chat, your appearance is also important. Ask someone, preferable a girl to take some shots with you in the park or something like that.
Use your imagination to impress her, but do not try too hard or you will seem desperate to meet a woman. Fuck buddies from the popular dating sites are usually very talkative and they will give you enough material to talk about. She will start to relate about her childhood, about her days in high school and so on. Just let her talk, do not interrupt her because this is how you will find out more details about her. You can keep the mystery about yourself and tell her that she will fin out more when she will go out with you. If she will be curious enough, she will accept eventually. There is no woman, no decent woman, who will accept to go out with a stranger after one chat. But be persistent, talk to her the next day, and the next day and so on.
If your attitude is the right one, eventually you will hook up on the dating site with a nice girl and maybe something good will come out from it. Do not screw it with silly lines from movies or other things like that. Be natural, be yourself and she will like you more. Make her laugh, but do not try to be too funny. Everything you do must come out natural and everything will be just great.