We have all been there. We need to get laid, but do not want to have to pay for it. The fact of the matter, however, is that all sex costs money. When you are in a relationship, and you have sex, you always have to pay in one way or another. If you are living together, you pay the bills, you do chores, you take care of her.
Even if you do not live in the same place, you have to pay to take her out to dinner, a concert, a movie, or where ever you two are spending time. Even if you both split everything financially, you have to pay by way of your time and energy when you listen to her drone on about her Twitter and Tumblr followers and how she hates the women at the nail salon. So, even if you have a steady girl friend, from which you are almost guaranteed sex at regular intervals; you have to pay to get it.
Social Sex Is When You Look For A Girl In A Social Situation
Now that we have established the fact that all sex costs something, we can get on to the issue at hand. If you are not in a relationship of some sort through which you can garner sex, then what are your choices.
Well, you basically have three alternatives. First, you have social sex, which is where you go to a dance club or a bar, and try to pick up a chick for a sexual encounter. Advantages are few, with the only exception being involved in a dance off, before social sex, like in the movie “Austin Powers in Goldmember,” where Austin Powers dances off against Brittany Spears.
Other than that possible pro, the cons of social sex are comprised of a myriad of negatives, like having to pay for admission, drinks, valet, coat check, and tips up the wazoo.
Another Option For Erotic Love Is An Escort
Your second option for erotic love is arranging a date with an escort. Pros of using pros are that they are reliable, and usually discreet. Because prostitution is illegal in every state except Nevada, it is in both of your best interest to keep this erotic love activity under wraps.
Unless you are using a high profile escort service, which could get indicted by a grand jury, revealing all the names of the patrons; chances are that you are safe using an escort service. If, however, you are using a street hooker for erotic love, be very careful of your surroundings.
Police love to stake out those types of places and arrest johns. Some counties even have a practice of publishing the pictures and names of convicted johns as a way to dissuade the practice. Other than these obvious cons, are the cost, which can range anywhere between a hundred dollars and a few thousand, and the possibility that she might have a sexually transmitted disease. These two detractions along with the stigma of prostitution make this option a no go for most guys.
Sex Dating Is The Cheapest Option
The third option, and I think the best option, is sex dating. There are so many sex dating sites out there to choose from that you are sure to find one that fits your style.
Whether, you are in a relationship, looking for sex only, or into whips and chains, there is something for every one on the internet. If you are not into the same old regular sex that most girls are, you can join a specialty site. The plethora of sites, along with the drive for competition means that they are really trying to win your business. That results in lower prices and more benefits for what you buy.
When you are on a sex dating site, you do not have to worry about paying for dinner or drinks. Both you and the girl are there because none of that is expected. You can bypass all of the b.s., and go on to getting laid. When you think about how many different girls you can have sex with on a sex dating site, the small amount of money that you have to pay to join is minuscule compared with amount of beaver you can pet. When compared to the cost of escorts, sex dating really is the clear winner.