Let’s just get one thing out of the way quickly: adult dating also known as sex dating gets a bad rap. Seriously.
When you hear about this type of dating from the mass media, the angle is usually negative. Whether the reporter is presenting it as a scandal or as a fast rising online trend, the positioning is always the same-either adult dating is ‘dirty’ or it is an activity that people (should) hide or it is something to apologize for.
Rarely do you come across a story that fully embraces and celebrates adult dating.
Well… enough is enough. The truth is simple. When it comes to dating, adult dating is the best thing online.
Nothing even comes close. Here are just ten of the countless reasons why adult dating is the best dating option online or offline.
Reason #1: You Do No Have To Put Up With The Bullshit Of Offline Dating
Offline dating is really all about putting up appearances, sending off the ‘right’ signals and hoping against hope someone would pick up on your signals and get on the same wave length as you.
You spend tons of cash on clothing, dance club admission, and drinks-only to take a crapshoot with the chicks inside the club. With adult dating, the chicks who appear on the site are looking for sex.
No more. No less. No need for you to bullshit them with the ‘right signals’ or dance moves since they are blatantly looking for the exact same thing you are looking for-sex.
Reason #2: You Can Filter Women Quickly
Let’s face it, there are tons of chicks out there you would not want to touch with a ten-foot pole even if someone paid you. Talk about hideous! There also chicks out there who are total head cases.
Sadly, you have to put up with these types of women when you are dating offline or online. In fact, screening out chicks who are nuts is quite hard with regular dating sites.
Adult dating lets you quickly filter out chicks based on looks and attitude. You can quickly spot women who just want to play head games and drop them like a hot potato.
Reason #3: You Can Message Many Women In Less Time
Say goodbye to sending message after message and racking your brains trying to come up with ‘witty answers.’ Since adult dating is all about sex, you can cut straight to the sex talk and dispense with the annoying small talk of regular online dating.
Reason #4: You Can Hook Up Or Fail Quickly
It may not seem like it but adult dating sites deliver results quickly. Even if a woman says NO, this is a good sign because you do not have to waste any more time on them.
Failing quickly is awesome because you can then focus your energy on women you have a chance of scoring with. Compare this with women at mainstream dating sites that bait you and drag you along.
Reason #5: You Can Tweak Your Profile To Get The Right First Impression
Since the focus of adult dating is all about sex, you can tweak your profile for this goal exclusively. This takes all the guesswork out of fine tuning and enhancing your profile.
Compare this to trying to come up with a mainstream dating profile that will appeal to a wider range of women with varying interests. It is as impossible as herding cats!
Reason #6: You Deal With Women Who Are Looking For Sex
Women go to adult dating sites for one thing and one thing alone: sex. No emotional strings. No romance.
Just action. This takes all the mystery out of the dating game for you and enables you to focus all your attention and effort towards getting the action you’re looking for.
Reason #7: You Do Not Have To Deal Directly With Dudes Competing For The Same Chicks
Unlike offline dating and way too many ‘open social’ mainstream dating sites, you do not have to mess around with the clash of egos that take place when too many dudes compete for a small amount of women.
You just need to show the right profile to women looking for a certain type of sex partner and you are good to go.
Reason #8: You Can Communicate Directly With No Distractions
Since there are no side distractions of possible relationships or worrying about what parents or friends might think, adult dating leads to a more direct style of communication.
You can be more honest and direct. You can adopt a ‘what you see is what you get’ attitude and people will not be offended.
In other words, you can be yourself and not have to worry about trying to act and sound like someone you are not.
Reason #9: Meeting Up For Sex Is Straightforward And Honest
Since meeting up for sex is the main (and for most people, the only) reason reason for joining adult dating sites, there is less awkwardness involved in setting up a sex date.
You meet each other on a site, you like what you see, you set up a date, and you take care of business.
No fuss. No muss. No unnecessary drama. No complications from unrealistic expectations and other factors that typically mess up a mainstream or traditional date. You can say good-bye to all that!
Reason #10: You Save Money (Since Time Is Money)
If you believe that time is money, then you would agree that sex dating or adult dating saves money. Since you shave so much time off the typical date by joining a site where women are looking to have sex with certain types of guys, you can set up sex dates in record time.
There is no beating around the bush. There is no reading between the lines. It is all about clean, honest, and quick sex.
Not surprisingly, this focus on quick results saves time and ultimately, since time is money, saves money.
Keep the reasons above in mind if you are still on the fence on adult dating. These ten reasons spell out why so many people have switched to adult dating.
They can also be boiled down into one sentence: less nonsense, more sex. What is not to love?