Adult Dating Tips

Were you on a date this Valentine’s Day? Did you go out to a restaurant like the olive garden or Macaroni Grill with a woman and look romantically into her eyes? Did you get some action on Valentine’s Day, or did you stay at home in your boxers watching porn on your apple ipad? The reason I ask, is that you did not have to be alone.

Online dating could have saved you from an evening of pulling your purple headed porridge pumper. But for some reason, there seems to be a negative connotation associated with online dating. I understand how it got its reputation, but the game has changed in the past few years.

The last time I tried online adult dating was about ten years ago, and it was archaic. The profile took almost an hour to fill out, which turned me off immediately; but I thought that all of the information would be put to good use in matching me to my perfect mate. I was giving them way too much credit. The women I was supposed to harmonize with, if you will, were so far away from what I was looking for that I gave up on the whole thing.

My Experience With Dating Online

About a year ago, my friends started telling me that social media has now blurred the line between it and online dating, so the stigma has lessened quite a bit. So I decided it was time I tried online dating again; and I am glad I did. I chose OKCupid as my first site to check out, because it seems like one of the more popular ones out there. Guess what I encountered right off the bat. You guessed it: a long form of questions!

I did not care, though, because I had an epiphany about it. I think that in the long run they will save time and frustration. They cover issues like religion, wanting kids, having kids, smoking, and other possible deal breakers that you might not think to ask about in the beginning. Plus, it gives you a list of characteristics that you should be thinking about when looking for a mate. You come away with something similar to a stats sheet, that you can easily compare to potential dates, to see immediate compatibility.

When women on OKcupid view your profile page, OKC let’s you know. This really appeals to me, because it is akin to finding out who looked at you at the club. It does not matter how casual or sly they might be about checking you out; you always know.

You don not see the expression on their face when they see you, but at least you know they looked. Then, of course, there are the messages. Not all of them are winners, but a vast majority of women do appear interesting. The way it is set up makes women safer, because they can talk to you at will.

If you start to get weird, they can just disappear. The same goes for us, though; so if a girl starts to get too clingy, we can just say, “See ya’!” The great thing is that all of this is done from the comfort of your living room. Not only do you not have to dress up, you do not even have to dress at all!

No matter if you live in a big city like Los Angeles, or a small town, online adult dating, along with social networking and texting, has changed the landscape of modern consorting. You need to keep up with those changes in order to stay competitive. If you have forsaken online dating because you fear your friends may mock you for it, you are doing yourself a disservice. Grow some balls, and get into the world of online dating. You will thank yourself next Valentine’s day.

We have all been there. We need to get laid, but do not want to have to pay for it. The fact of the matter, however, is that all sex costs money. When you are in a relationship, and you have sex, you always have to pay in one way or another. If you are living together, you pay the bills, you do chores, you take care of her.

Even if you do not live in the same place, you have to pay to take her out to dinner, a concert, a movie, or where ever you two are spending time. Even if you both split everything financially, you have to pay by way of your time and energy when you listen to her drone on about her Twitter and Tumblr followers and how she hates the women at the nail salon. So, even if you have a steady girl friend, from which you are almost guaranteed sex at regular intervals; you have to pay to get it.

Social Sex Is When You Look For A Girl In A Social Situation

Now that we have established the fact that all sex costs something, we can get on to the issue at hand. If you are not in a relationship of some sort through which you can garner sex, then what are your choices.

Well, you basically have three alternatives. First, you have social sex, which is where you go to a dance club or a bar, and try to pick up a chick for a sexual encounter. Advantages are few, with the only exception being involved in a dance off, before social sex, like in the movie “Austin Powers in Goldmember,” where Austin Powers dances off against Brittany Spears.

Other than that possible pro, the cons of social sex are comprised of a myriad of negatives, like having to pay for admission, drinks, valet, coat check, and tips up the wazoo.

Another Option For Erotic Love Is An Escort

Your second option for erotic love is arranging a date with an escort. Pros of using pros are that they are reliable, and usually discreet. Because prostitution is illegal in every state except Nevada, it is in both of your best interest to keep this erotic love activity under wraps.

Unless you are using a high profile escort service, which could get indicted by a grand jury, revealing all the names of the patrons; chances are that you are safe using an escort service. If, however, you are using a street hooker for erotic love, be very careful of your surroundings.

Police love to stake out those types of places and arrest johns. Some counties even have a practice of publishing the pictures and names of convicted johns as a way to dissuade the practice. Other than these obvious cons, are the cost, which can range anywhere between a hundred dollars and a few thousand, and the possibility that she might have a sexually transmitted disease. These two detractions along with the stigma of prostitution make this option a no go for most guys.

Sex Dating Is The Cheapest Option

The third option, and I think the best option, is sex dating. There are so many sex dating sites out there to choose from that you are sure to find one that fits your style.

Whether, you are in a relationship, looking for sex only, or into whips and chains, there is something for every one on the internet. If you are not into the same old regular sex that most girls are, you can join a specialty site. The plethora of sites, along with the drive for competition means that they are really trying to win your business. That results in lower prices and more benefits for what you buy.

When you are on a sex dating site, you do not have to worry about paying for dinner or drinks. Both you and the girl are there because none of that is expected. You can bypass all of the b.s., and go on to getting laid. When you think about how many different girls you can have sex with on a sex dating site, the small amount of money that you have to pay to join is minuscule compared with amount of beaver you can pet. When compared to the cost of escorts, sex dating really is the clear winner.

When you want a girl to think it is her idea to go out with you there are ways that you can get her to ask you first. This can build your confidence and make for a better evening when she really, really wants to go out with you.

There are a few things that you can do to get a girl to ask you out. Maybe you want to put the ball in her court, and this is smart if you are someone who doesn’t mind giving up control because she will really want to go out with you.

Act Unavailable

You should always have plans with friends when she asks you what you are doing. If you travel in the same social circles you should mention dates with other girls so that it gets back to her. The more unavailable you are to her the more appealing you look. If she gets the chance to ask you out and she thinks she can snag you from another fun activity then you are golden.

Act Uninterested

If she says she doesn’t think she can date someone like you tell her it is probably for the best. Using reverse psychology on a woman works wonders. Once she thinks that she cannot have you, you become a lot more appealing to her. If she says you aren’t her type agree with her, then say something like fun and handsome is not your type I get it, your loss baby. This will at least get her thinking about it.

Do Not Be Too Eager

When she does ask you out, do not jump up and down for joy. You should make her think she is lucky you are even going out with her. If you turn into obsessive man after you have been so stand-offish then it is not going to work. You can tell her you appreciate the date at the end of it, and give her a good night kiss, but the fact that you don’t push for more or act too excited will keep her up all night wondering if she is good enough.

Many men and women have asked me this question, and I have a hard and fast answer: it depends. Am I talking to a guy or a girl? Girls generally feel that size is not an issue. The widely held belief is that how the man uses it is more important than size.

However, if a man does not know how to use his rod, then having a larger sized one can make up for not having the inherent skill. Interesting fact the largest penis on record is 13.5 inches.

When we are talking about the size of a man’s member, how big is big? Well, the average size of the Male beef baton is between 5.6 and 6.2 inches in length. Average girth comes in between 4.6 and 5.2 inches. Most beavers would be completely filled with a less than average man’s wand. But just filling it is not enough.

You have to know what to do with it. Knowing the anatomy of a woman’s vagina helps, so that you know what areas to try to hit. One of the most important areas is on the wall closest to the hair. In the middle or so of that wall should be her G-Spot. Some men can reach this better from the missionary position or from the rear, depending on how his man scepter is shaped.

Is fast or slow better? I think it is best to vary the pace, but slow seems to work better for a lot of women. Plus, I find it too easy to ejaculate quickly if my pace is too fast. Another thing that will make you better is listening to her. She will tell you what feels good, either verbally or through groaning. Respond appropriately and you can not go wrong.

Almost every woman I have ever spoken to would rather have a man with a thicker unit than a longer one, but for a minority, longer is better. There is a small group of women who only want a man with a large meat stick. These women are referred to as “Size Queen” Some of them got used to a man with a large bald headed yogurt slinger, and now can never go back. Other women in this category have loosened squish mittens as a result of child birth. For these women, only a man with a large statue of puberty will do.

For guys, it is more of an issue. Guys want to compare the size of their Manhood with that of their friends and rivals. They think that if they have a bigger one eyed trouser trout than the next guy, then they will better satisfy any and all women. Some guys take it all the way to the belief that a large purple helmeted soldier of love is the key to true happiness.

Case in point, when I was in high school, I was on the football team. One day when we were all in the locker room, one dude was telling everybody about a movie he saw where all the guys put a buck in a pool, and whoever had the biggest penis would win the pool. Now, I just happen to have been blessed with a slightly above average beanpole in both length and girth; nothing to brag about, but enough to hold my own in a competition.

I was not worried, but I advised my friend that I did not think it was a good idea. Looking back now, it seems a little weird; but we were used to seeing every one naked in the locker room anyway, so it did not seem that strange at the time. Anyhow, when all was said and done, my friend, who has a respectable six and a half inches, felt inferior to guys he had always beaten on the field.

After that experience, he was not as good of a player, because he had lost a lot of that bravado that came with being dominant on the field. In fact, he ended up not even making the team the next year. He was one of the best tacklers I would ever seen, and I thought he would go pro one day, but he just lost all of his confidence.

When it comes to the size of your penis, you should be happy with it. Whether it is an anaconda or a garter snake, you can learn techniques to help you reach the goal of giving your girl pleasure. Plus, most women do not even care about how big it is. Remember, it is not the size of the boat; it is the motion in the ocean.

Maybe it happened to you not only once. You find a cute girl on some adult dating site, maybe among your friend’s list and you decide to approach her and try to have sex with. Do not ask your friend who is she, where is she from, find out on your own. You are a man, is your duty to find out more.

To start with, add her on your list. Then browse her photos. Take a good look at the comments, see what is she like, if she has lots of friends or just a few. That is important to know. If you are convinced that she is a decent girl, you can start the attack, metaphorically speaking. Send her a message on the chat. Say something like “Hello, Sam!”. Avoid typing stupid things like “hey, sexy”. No, girls don’t like to be approached like that. So try to abstain yourself from silly texts like that. It is enough to say her name, and she will think that you already know her from somewhere. The ice between you is already broken. Do not forget to use her name again once in a while, she will like it. Every person is delighted to hear her name said out loud, use it as a trick.

Take care to have some good pictures with you on your profile page. Photos with you drunk are not the best option. Think a little. You can not use gestures on the dating website, you can not impress her with your charm. So your photos is all that you got. And if they are lame, she will not think about going out with you. So beside your attitude on the chat, your appearance is also important. Ask someone, preferable a girl to take some shots with you in the park or something like that.

Use your imagination to impress her, but do not try too hard or you will seem desperate to meet a woman. Fuck buddies from the popular dating sites are usually very talkative and they will give you enough material to talk about. She will start to relate about her childhood, about her days in high school and so on. Just let her talk, do not interrupt her because this is how you will find out more details about her. You can keep the mystery about yourself and tell her that she will fin out more when she will go out with you. If she will be curious enough, she will accept eventually. There is no woman, no decent woman, who will accept to go out with a stranger after one chat. But be persistent, talk to her the next day, and the next day and so on.

If your attitude is the right one, eventually you will hook up on the dating site with a nice girl and maybe something good will come out from it. Do not screw it with silly lines from movies or other things like that. Be natural, be yourself and she will like you more. Make her laugh, but do not try to be too funny. Everything you do must come out natural and everything will be just great.

There are several methods to convince a virgin to have sex and not only with you for the first time. If she really likes you, you will get her in your bed in no time. The most important thing is to assure that she is not some weird religious girl who wants to stay a virgin until she gets married. If she is so, nothing will convince her, so run as far as you can.

If she is not, and she seems pretty snap, your path will be smooth. Ask her to spend the night over your place to watch a movie. If she trusts you, she will come in no time. After the movie, make sure that she is sleepy enough and start to kiss her softly. Make her feel comfortable enough, listen to her favorite music and stuff like that. Just hold her tight so she can feel protected. You should choose a boring movie so you can start with the caressing part even earlier.

Always be gentle, especially when you touch her breasts under her clothes. She will feel a little frightened at first but just kiss her slowly and she will relax. She actually likes it but she does not want to admit it from the start. You could get in her pants really only if you are patient enough. Make sure that nothing will disturb you and that you are home alone. If she is tired enough she will let you do whatever with your hands.

You will have to caress her clit, long enough to turn her on. You will make her feel something new and that will be the key to sleeping with her. Do not rush things, just play and kiss her. When she is horny enough, you can take off her pants and yours too. Make her wet as hell and from here you should know what to do. Do not forget to always baby her, to be very gentle and to kiss her really slowly. Maybe you will not get into her pants from the first night you try it, but the next one will be yours for sure. Do not worry if she will get upset after that and say that she will never do it again. Especially if it was hurtful for her. You will convince her all over again and she will like it.

Virgins are usually pretty frigid but with some tricks you can make them very eager to have sex on your date with her. If you just started a relationship with a virgin, caress her boobs and her ass as frequent as you can, tell her how attracted you are to her, make her want you in any way. You will see the results. Virgins should not be scary, more than that, they should be some kind of a trophy for guys. Not many succeed in sleeping with a virgin, not to say that very few sleep with more than one. If you are that lucky, good for you!