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Online adult dating is one of the most popular, if not the most popular, ways for singles to connect in our modern world.

Some find online hookups effortlessly while others pass up the opportunity to hook up online because they are either unwilling to let go of conventional dating methods or they are not sure how to be successful in a world that can often be deceiving.

The first thing you need to realize is that; sex dating is popular enough that you can most certainly find someone to hook up with if you play your cards right.

Much like any new thing you try; you might not be successful the first time around. You need to get some practice and get comfortable.

It also helps to be as knowledgeable as possible going in. That is why I have put together a list of the most important things to consider when trying to find a hookup online.

Perhaps the most important element in successfully hooking up online is finding an adult dating site that is legit.

Dating is a big business and there are countless sites and even entire networks of sites that are dedicated to fooling users into paying a high membership charge without offering an authentic experience.

They fill their site with fake profiles and use computer software to send you fake messages to fool you into paying their membership costs.

Navigating through these sites can be frustrating because there is a lot more bad than good, but do not let this discourage you.

It is fairly easy to spot the frauds if you know what to look for.

Watch for sites that claim to be free, but ask for your credit card information before you sign in.

A legit site will be up front about what they charge and outline exactly what you get with your membership.

There are a handful of good free ones, but be careful for the sites that allow you to sign up for free, but make you pay for a membership you can correspond with any other members.

If a site is truly free; you will be able to send and respond to messages without being prompted to pay a fee.

You might have to be fooled a few times before you find the right site, but this is normal. The more sites you visit, the easier it will be for you to spot the frauds and move on.

Once you have landed on a site that legitimately allows you to connect with other singles; you are going to need a strategy to get the most out of your online dating experience.

Fill out your profile and any personality questions that the site asks you and be yourself.

Add some flattering photos that show you in your best light, but avoid being cheesy.

Perform a search and enter criteria as detailed as you like to get just the right match.

Be realistic and lower your expectations if you are not successful in a timely manner.

If you are want to have some sex. you can join this adult dating website which I have been using for years to hook up with raunchy women.

First, as for any other story ever made, you need to understand the subject. It is pretty simple, of course!

We are talking about dating that involves sex (and who knows, maybe some romantic hanky-panky) and in comparison, about live sex cam sites.

You do not need to be a smart ass to know the advantages and disadvantages of one and another. In fact, it is pretty obvious, right from the beginning.

Even so, this article will try to explain in detail why dating (and going online on dating sites) is much better than spending your hard earned money on a chick that shows her pussy on the glass.

What Wikipedia Says About Adult Dating

“Adult dating or no-strings-attached dating is a variant of a traditional online dating service. Where traditional services aim to bringing people together for the purposes of a meaningful relationship or friendship, adult dating is aimed at those who are seeking short-term sexual encounters.

Many adult dating sites focus on the local aspect of finding a match. Some users regard the service as no different from finding a one-night stand on a night out.

Some adult dating sites are deliberately aimed at married people seeking to have affairs, and have been criticised by Christian groups who are actively campaigning against such sites in the United Kingdom after the ASA did not upheld complaints against the advertising of such services.”

The definition speaks for itself and it is comprehensive. Let’s just say that I, myself, could not have said it better than this.

And it is true, these sites are on for adultery and one night stands among the lines of married people.

If God rules your days and if you do not want to disobey His rules, you better stay out of this article and in general out of dating online, if you have a wife. But if you do not care about this, you will get so much pussy!

What Wikipedia Says About Live Cams

“A webcam model, also known as a camgirl for females and camboy for males, is a model who performs on the Internet through live webcam footage. A webcam model often performs sexual services in exchange for money, goods, or attention.

Individuals in this profession often charge a fixed fee per minute, however many encourage viewers to purchase items on online wish lists or to add money to online accounts.

They may also earn money through advertising or earn commission by convincing customers to sign up for membership at adult pornographic paysites. Commissions earned by camgirls vary widely by paysite, but are typically in the form of a flat fee, sometimes known as a “bounty”, or based on a percentage of gross sales for every customer who signs up to a site.”

Sure, true again! But for fuck sake, where the hell is the human touch?

You will feel shit, because you will only be able to see the girls. Where is the smell of their hair, the soft feeling when you are touching a girl’s skin and so on?

Nothing, it is nothing there. It is like watching a live porn video. Money lost, nothing happened. You just jerked off like a maniac in front of the screen. That is it!

Do you remember that old movie with Sylvester Stallone, called “Demolition Man”? There is a scene in that movie where Stallone, coming from the past into the future (he was in suspended animation, or whatever the fuck), finds out that regular sex is not in trend anymore.

People in that period of time are fucking each other by interconnecting some headsets and some wires.

No touch involved! Yeah, it was way more better than with the live sex cams, because those headsets were stimulating some nerves.

When it comes to webcams, you stimulate shit.

How Much Does It Cost To Be On An Adult Dating Site

Nothing! Well, almost nothing! Or better said, most of the time nothing! You will be able to browse the platform for free, you will be able to register a profile and to arrange yours!

Also, you will be able to interact with other people for free. If you are a good-talker and you are smooth with the ladies, you can even go out with the ones that are near your area, for free.

There are lots of damsels in distress waiting for you. Now, because I have said “almost nothing”, let me tell you why you will have to spend some dollars.

In general, this will happen if you will want to be a VIP member. Or, when you want some special perks and some special features to look good in front of the ladies. Nice, ha?

And when you will date the women, in reality, touching is involved, right? You will touch their lingerie, their booties, their tits and everything else. And yeah, you will be able to fuck their brains out. For real!

How Much Does It Cost To Be On A Live Cams Site

Nothing! But even if nothing, it does not mean that for this nothing you will be able to do anything. Cause every single live show and every single nude interaction with a girl will cost you big bucks.

A minute of show is very expensive and to be able to enjoy a nice scene with the model, you will need a lot of minutes.

Sure, there are some websites where it is free to see them naked, but these babes will do nothing without a tip or a gift.

In the end, what is the purpose of this? You want to be like a boss! You want to tell them (them, the beauties behind the camera) what to do, how to do it, where to touch themselves, what to wear and so on

Without this, you could simply watch an adult clip, since it would be the same thing. And let’s not forget what I have already told you – you will touch shit!

Conclusion

We do not want cyber living! We do not want cyber interactions, because there will be no future generations this way.

And for sure we do not want to spend our money on fictional things! We worked hard for those dollars and we want to spend them with a purpose.

And what other better ways to spend money than on chicks? Real chicks, in front of you, in flesh and bones.

Go ahead, enter on an adult dating site and find yourself a fuck buddy!

Let’s just get one thing out of the way quickly: adult dating also known as sex dating gets a bad rap. Seriously.

When you hear about this type of dating from the mass media, the angle is usually negative. Whether the reporter is presenting it as a scandal or as a fast rising online trend, the positioning is always the same-either adult dating is ‘dirty’ or it is an activity that people (should) hide or it is something to apologize for.

Rarely do you come across a story that fully embraces and celebrates adult dating.

Well… enough is enough. The truth is simple. When it comes to dating, adult dating is the best thing online.

Nothing even comes close. Here are just ten of the countless reasons why adult dating is the best dating option online or offline.

Reason #1: You Do No Have To Put Up With The Bullshit Of Offline Dating

Offline dating is really all about putting up appearances, sending off the ‘right’ signals and hoping against hope someone would pick up on your signals and get on the same wave length as you.

You spend tons of cash on clothing, dance club admission, and drinks-only to take a crapshoot with the chicks inside the club. With adult dating, the chicks who appear on the site are looking for sex.

No more. No less. No need for you to bullshit them with the ‘right signals’ or dance moves since they are blatantly looking for the exact same thing you are looking for-sex.

Reason #2: You Can Filter Women Quickly

Let’s face it, there are tons of chicks out there you would not want to touch with a ten-foot pole even if someone paid you. Talk about hideous! There also chicks out there who are total head cases.

Sadly, you have to put up with these types of women when you are dating offline or online. In fact, screening out chicks who are nuts is quite hard with regular dating sites.

Adult dating lets you quickly filter out chicks based on looks and attitude. You can quickly spot women who just want to play head games and drop them like a hot potato.

Reason #3: You Can Message Many Women In Less Time

Say goodbye to sending message after message and racking your brains trying to come up with ‘witty answers.’ Since adult dating is all about sex, you can cut straight to the sex talk and dispense with the annoying small talk of regular online dating.

Reason #4: You Can Hook Up Or Fail Quickly

It may not seem like it but adult dating sites deliver results quickly. Even if a woman says NO, this is a good sign because you do not have to waste any more time on them.

Failing quickly is awesome because you can then focus your energy on women you have a chance of scoring with. Compare this with women at mainstream dating sites that bait you and drag you along.

Reason #5: You Can Tweak Your Profile To Get The Right First Impression

Since the focus of adult dating is all about sex, you can tweak your profile for this goal exclusively. This takes all the guesswork out of fine tuning and enhancing your profile.

Compare this to trying to come up with a mainstream dating profile that will appeal to a wider range of women with varying interests. It is as impossible as herding cats!

Reason #6: You Deal With Women Who Are Looking For Sex

Women go to adult dating sites for one thing and one thing alone: sex. No emotional strings. No romance.

Just action. This takes all the mystery out of the dating game for you and enables you to focus all your attention and effort towards getting the action you’re looking for.

Reason #7: You Do Not Have To Deal Directly With Dudes Competing For The Same Chicks

Unlike offline dating and way too many ‘open social’ mainstream dating sites, you do not have to mess around with the clash of egos that take place when too many dudes compete for a small amount of women.

You just need to show the right profile to women looking for a certain type of sex partner and you are good to go.

Reason #8: You Can Communicate Directly With No Distractions

Since there are no side distractions of possible relationships or worrying about what parents or friends might think, adult dating leads to a more direct style of communication.

You can be more honest and direct. You can adopt a ‘what you see is what you get’ attitude and people will not be offended.

In other words, you can be yourself and not have to worry about trying to act and sound like someone you are not.

Reason #9: Meeting Up For Sex Is Straightforward And Honest

Since meeting up for sex is the main (and for most people, the only) reason reason for joining adult dating sites, there is less awkwardness involved in setting up a sex date.

You meet each other on a site, you like what you see, you set up a date, and you take care of business.

No fuss. No muss. No unnecessary drama. No complications from unrealistic expectations and other factors that typically mess up a mainstream or traditional date. You can say good-bye to all that!

Reason #10: You Save Money (Since Time Is Money)

If you believe that time is money, then you would agree that sex dating or adult dating saves money. Since you shave so much time off the typical date by joining a site where women are looking to have sex with certain types of guys, you can set up sex dates in record time.

There is no beating around the bush. There is no reading between the lines. It is all about clean, honest, and quick sex.

Not surprisingly, this focus on quick results saves time and ultimately, since time is money, saves money.

Keep the reasons above in mind if you are still on the fence on adult dating. These ten reasons spell out why so many people have switched to adult dating.

They can also be boiled down into one sentence: less nonsense, more sex. What is not to love?

The Main Reasons You Should Consider Hooking Up On Adult Dating Sites Instead of Watching Porn

I used to watch a lot of porn movies every single day in my early twenties. I could not imagine my life without any porn, but adult dating has changed me. In this blog post I will tell you why I think that real sex is better.

We all get horny from time to time. Some of us more often than others, but each of us shares the desire to have some kind of sexual stimuli in our lives.

First off, it is encoded in us that we want to reproduce and to have new, intense sexual experiences.

Sex is something we just can not seem to get enough of. Sure, it can hurt after a while, but it is always good to jump back into business right after we have had some rest.

Sex is a process and it looks the same for each and every individual, yet our experiences differ by a great deal. Today, we have less and less taboos in our sexual lives and we are freer to express what we desire.

Our sexual preferences have rarely been as colorful as they are now. History shows a fine expression of human perversion and that stays among the few things that has not changed. We are all incredibly horny.

We all think about sex and dream about our dirtiest desires. Some of us are lucky enough to be able to share those with just the right person, the fuck buddy from the adult dating site and come enjoy it together.

But there are many people who would rather choose the virtual world to get their dose of sexual stimuli. While it is true that we men can be easily stimulated visually and that every one of us has watched plenty of porn in our lifetime, few of us would call that a truly sexual experience.

We can jerk off as many times as our penis can handle it and we will just put out our dirty load. What a waste!

Watching porn can become a serious addiction as it provides us with an easy way towards pleasure. All a guy has to do is sit down in front of his monitor, pull his zipper and… you probably know the process.

There is nothing wrong with masturbation; it is good, it is healthy and makes you happy but avoiding female contact to jerk off to an acted out porn scene does not seem like a healthy thing to do.

Today, we will dive into this topic, considering what porn and real sex has to offer us and what you can do to get more out of your intimate life.

What Does Porn Really Have To Offer?

Porn followed not long after the invention of the video camera. The first porn video was made in 1896 and we have been producing them steadily ever since.

Probably more than half of the population has jerked off to porn at least once in their life. Everyone in our modern society knows about its existence from a very young age, because it is very easy to get your hands on it.

That is the main reason why we continue to use it.

Porn videos, magazines and any kind of media give us a quick, cheap and momentary burst of sexual bliss. We can instantly look at women whose looks are simply mind boggling and sexual adventures that look beyond our wildest dreams.

Today, we are a few clicks away from a wild world of sexual desires, where almost anything you could come up with has been done by hundreds of pornstars.

It is an industry that aims to fulfill all its viewers’ desires by producing more and more explicit content, rarely giving place to creativity and more importantly, life.

You will have to do a thorough search to find some real sex. Most porn videos are cheesy and acted out. Amateur porn is one of the few porn genres that you will find some real sex in.

Professional porn is focusing only on the mechanical aspect of sex which has almost nothing to do with intimacy. Where in reality, the sharing of your intimacy is what sexuality is about or at least it should be.

If you take passion, devotion and the intimacy out of the equation, you are left with a pretty sad picture. They are desperately trying to give back something real and something passionate and keep delivering the same thing over and over again.

I do not even have to mention that porn does not even come near to the look and feel of an actual woman and actual sex. It is hard to think that some people would give that up and would rather fall in love with their screen.

Porn has a knack to blast you out of your mind with all the intense and mind boggling action it puts in front of you. No wonder we love these short bursts of sexual bliss so much.

But for this same reason, if you watch too much, it will detach you from reality. Porn tends to make people a bit antisocial with women and makes it harder to be intimate.

If we bombard our brains with explicit porn videos, normal experiences no longer satisfy us. It is easy to have unrealistic expectations in your actual sex life after watching and jerking off to a series of porn videos.

You know that when your favorite songs just get stuck in your head and come up unexpectedly when you drive. The same happens with porn videos.

You might be having some real sex and find yourself acting out a porn scene from your subconscious mind. We create unrealistic images in our heads and come up with unrealistic expectations that make real things seem like they just are not enough. Not to mention that we suppress women in the process.

To put it simple.

Porn gives us a short burst of pleasure by stimulating us visually. But it does not give back the true aspects of sex and intimacy.

Thankfully, we have much better options out there. In fact, many of them are waiting just for you to call them out for a date.

Why Would Someone Choose Porn Over Actual Women?

There are a number of things that many people find unattractive in dating and hooking up with women on adult dating websites. It is not a wonder that some choose the easy way out.

Each and every one of us has their own limitations and the goal is always to surpass them by all means. That is how we develop and make way to new experiences. It is the same when it comes to our limits in dating and hooking up.

There are two main reasons for people to skip dating:

Discomfort

Each of us handles meeting up with new people differently. Some might find a lot of discomfort in these fresh starts where we just go up and talk to somebody or ask them out or try to find out if they would hook up with us.

But you should never give up without even trying. You might suck at it at first, but the more you do it over and over again, flirting and dating becomes a natural process, you will become good at it. The better you get at it, the more confident and attractive you will be which will attract more and sexier women into your life.

Fear Of Rejection

Many people are afraid of being rejected by women. It might happen that you walk up nicely to a lady and invite her for a drink while she puts on a mean face and tells you to fuck off.

That only measures her as a person, not you as a man. But be sure that you are not looking at her like a creepy pervert.

While the fear of rejection has struck many of us in our lives, it should not hold us back from moving forward with our dating endeavors. Having courage and accepting yourself completely even if you are rejected is one of the keys to dating success, and will make you much more attractive.

So What Can You Do?

It might be hard to just walk up to somebody and ask them to have sex with you and that is probably something you should not do.

No matter who you are, you can find yourself someone to hook up with. If you want a relationship or just want to have some good casual sex, you have plenty of places to search for it. Just put on a shirt, make a nice hairdo and go out and engage with people.

You know… girls do not bite. At least, not in the beginning.

You should always look for real life experiences, because those will keep your blood pumping and give you a decent sexual life to look forward to.

The feel and the touch of a real woman in your arms are much better than thousands of porn videos. The feeling is the same for women as well, so do not be shy about making your move towards them.

You are sure to hook up with somebody or find your dream date if you do the right things and respect women.

Summary

This concludes our article about porn and adult sex dating. I hope that you have found the motivation to dive right into hooking up and to skip tapping for a while.

We will be coming up with several articles where we cover some great adult dating tips about how you can improve your dating skills and land a girl in your bed tonight!

Stay tuned for more!

To Masturbate Or Not Masturbate that is the question.

Today we are going to be talking about the masturbation. There is obviously a heated debate out there on the Internet about whether masturbation is a good thing or a bad thing.

Well, let’s talk about the school of thoughts that says it is a bad thing and they say “Do not masturbate”.

It just destroys your sexual energy and women will notice your sexual energy more when you do not masturbate.

On the other hand you have got the people that say masturbation is natural, it is pleasurable, it helps you to regulate your sexual energy and it can help you to avoid climaxing too early when you actually have a sex with a girl on your adult date.

In other words, it helps you to avoid being a one minute man.

Now let’s talk about some common myths about masturbation and bust them straight away because there are some fascinating things out there, I have to say.

Common Myths About Masturbation

• Masturbation does not limit sexual performance or libido later in life.
• Masturbation does not cause a reduction in the quantity of semen.
• Masturbation does not adversely affect the quality of semen.
• Masturbation does not make semen watery.
• Masturbation does not cause mental illness.
• Masturbation does not cause blindness. I mean that should be an obvious one, otherwise most men would be blind.
• Masturbation does not cause growth of hair on palms which is my favorite one. I have to say I did not know about this I looked online and I was like wow.
• Masturbation does not cause impotence either.

So you are off on all of those counts.

Are We Designed To Masturbate?

Instead in this may actually surprise you there is a reason in nature why we humans apparently like to masturbates so much.

That is due to a study by Scientific American and they are reporting bascially that in men, the younger and more fresh the sperm sample is, the more likely it is to be accepted by the female reproductive tract and result in a fertilized embryos.

That means the fitter younger sperm, kind of gets there more quickly and makes more babies.

Now based on this finding they label male masturbation as a natural way to shed old sperm and make room for new fitter sperm.

Even for women orgasms which are often obtained through masturbation (if you are not doing your job), are also attributed to the higher sperm retention. It is also to believe that orgasms give women an incentive to have more sex.

I would believe that definitely. I can tell from my own personal experience and so increase their chances of procreating.

So What Do I Think?

Here are my conclusions from all of this and which totally bears out in my life.

Moderation Is Key

Alright, if you masturbate from time to time, it might well help you to regulate your sexual energy and you are staying in touch with being a little bit sexual atleast.

That is something I found especially useful for people who have been single for a while.

Otherwise you either get really sexually frustrated around women or on the other hand you forget that you have a penis in the first place and pretend that you do not need a sex life.

Both of those extremes do not help you.

Masturbation Can Help Delay Orgasm

Here is a key tip. If you have a tendency to orgasm too quickly for the girl then masturbating regularly and specially before a date is a really good idea.

Practice Lasting Longer!

You can also use masturbation to practice delaying your ejaculation. On the other hand if you have got a problem getting stimulated by women and you constantly watch porn and you masturbate several times a day, you would be smart to slow it down and reduce it to once or twice a week at least for a while to see how it feels different.

Do Not Get Addicted To Porn

Also do not get addicted to porn movies and please I know a lot of the younger guys do this. Do not start thinking that porn has much to do with mutual sex, with a real person.

Listen To Your Body

So listen to your body notice what feels right for you. Use masturbation to regulate your sexual energy and ejaculation.

Please do yourself a favor, do not watch porn that is exploitative or makes you feel dirty in some way.

On that serious note, have you got stories about this, have you opinions about this, this should be a hot topic so let’s have a discussion right below. Share your stories here below.

Masturbation is great, do not get me wrong, but it is not even close to making love to a girl that you really love.

So if you are wondering how to get regular adult dating dates with girls that lead to more then read my other posts as well.

I see you later, take care.